WHO ARE YOU? Claim Your Genetic Personality & Overcome Defective Upbringing

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Are You Emotionally Masked to Survive
A Toxic Childhood or Relationship?
Claim Your Genetic Personality and Talents to Move on From Enabling and Narcissism
By Mentally Exercising Naked

Your Personality Is 60% Genetics and 40% Nurturing

But toxic nurturing and relationships can completely overwhelm and hide your genetic personality and talents.

Have toxic people caused you to lose your...

  • Life purpose and truth
  • Sexual self-esteem
  • Laughter and joy
  • Genetic personality
  • Inherent talents

Are you a different kind of the walking dead?

  • Do you feel trapped trying to please unpleasable toxic people?
  • Is your masculine or feminine spirit crushed?
  • Have you lost touch with who you really are?

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For real answers...

Urgent problems you don't know you have...

  • Not knowing that living in emotional survival mode causes you to mask your genetic truth and purpose and lose touch with who you really are
  • Not knowing that if you grew up in a dysfunctional home chances are you've become either a situational narcissist or enabler to survive
  • Not knowing how to set free your genetic personality and talents to be your authentic self
  • Not knowing both narcissism and codependency are the opposite extremes of low self-esteem
  • Not knowing that many personality weaknesses result from trying to be someone you're not

 Here's what you learn how to do:

  • Peel off the layers of the mask to release your true personality
  • Claim and develop your genetic talents
  • Replace situational narcissism and codependency with self-love to grow in your love for others
  • Control your toxic self-talk, object-talk, and other-talk
  • Silence and heal the voices from your past with mental exercises (the Bible calls it "exercising naked")

Best of all

Your Next Steps...

Claim Your Genetic Personality with WHO ARE YOU? Christian Coaching


Choose From Two Coaching Plans

Unmask Your Genetic Personality

  • $247 1-month program
  • Two (2) 60-minute phone calls
  • Handouts and worksheets
  • Email support

Includes Plan 1 Plus Facing Your Childhood and Setting Boundaries to Set Your Authentic Personality Free

  • $697 3-month program
  • Includes Plan 1 plus more
  • Total of six (6) 60-minute phone calls (2 each month)
  • Handouts and worksheets for building your Workbook
  • E-mail support

Email Patsy @ PatsyRaeDawson.com to take a pre-coaching survey to determine your level of masking.

Schedule a coaching session now with Patsy to help you make healthy decisions for yourself and your children.

Pay through PayPal before coaching session:

Coaching options

NOTE: Plan 1 includes only the first month. Plan 2 includes all three months.

1st Month: Discover Your Genetic Personality & Talents

  1. Wired-That-Way-frontTake Off Your Personality Mask Worksheets and Picture Analysis
  2. Dig Deeper by Combining Wired That Way with Archetypes for Enhanced Personality Discovery
  3. Claim Your God-Given Talents Worksheet

2nd Month: Leave Your Childhood Survival Ways BehindLove

  1. Examine Your Home of Origin With Adult Eyes
  2. Overcome Situational Narcissism & Codependency
    (Opposite Extremes of a Lack of Self-Love)
  3. Love Yourself With Affirmation Statements from the Song of Solomon

3rd Month: Set Boundaries With Self & Others

  1. Stop Your Toxic Self-Talk, Other-Talk, Object-Talk
  2. Practice Life-Changing 8-Second Mental Sprints and Exercises
  3. Learn How You Can Completely Change the Course of Arguments and Teach Others How to Fight Fair


To Heal the Present You Must Own and Move Beyond Childhood Survival Techniques

Those of us who’ve overcome life’s trials develop organic, unique insights. It’s God’s way of teaching us through hindsight:

1 Peter 1:6-7: "In this you greatly rejoice, even though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been distressed by various trials, so that the proof of your faith, being more precious than gold which is perishable, even though tested by fire, may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ."

It’s also God’s way of turning us into unlikely experts:

Hebrews 5:12-14: "For though by this time you ought to be teachers, you have need again for someone to teach you the elementary principles of the oracles of God, and you have come to need milk and not solid food. For everyone who partakes only of milk is not accustomed to the word of righteousness, for he is an infant. But solid food is for the mature, who because of practice have their senses trained to discern good and evil."

It’s true of Dr. Karyl McBride, the daughter of a narcissistic mother. Perhaps you’ve read her book Will I Ever Be Good Enough? She’s continued to uncover narcissistic truths in her newest book Will I Ever Be Free of You? How to Navigate a High-Conflict Divorce from a Narcissist and Heal Your Family.

It’s true of Dr. Douglas Weiss, the child of two sexual addicts. His personal struggle with sexual addiction and working with others helped him discover the core problem of sexless marriages. In Intimacy Anorexia he exposes the hidden addiction to enjoying inflicting pain by withholding emotional and sexual love.

It’s true of Bonnie Kaye, M.Ed. who unknowingly married a homosexual. She struggled to overcome the assault on her sexual self-image by this dark brutal version of sexless marriages. She brought gay-straight marriages out of the closet with The Gay Husband Checklist for Women Who Wonder. She offers additional wisdom in Over the Cliff: Gay Husbands in Straight Marriages and other books.

It’s true of me, Patsy Rae Dawson, the daughter of an abusive narcissistic, histrionic mother. I share insights from coaching men and women for over 40 years on the secret of the brain for enjoying vaginal orgasms and dealing with sexless marriages, including my own. That led to increased wisdom and conviction that to heal the present, we must own and move beyond childhood survival techniques to become our authentic self.

May God help us reclaim our genetic personality and talents so that we might truly be vessels meet for his use in spreading his love upon a earth so desperate for his guidance.

With Christian love for you, I remain
Always in his and your service,


Patsy Rae Dawson has coached men and women for over 40 years on how to enjoy vaginal orgasms and dealing with sexless marriages. She authored three in-depth books on marriage including two on the Bible and sex that are used in congregational studies plus numerous other publications.  Patsy has participated in and taught college-level Bible classes for over 30 years. She was a minister’s wife for 22 of those years working with congregations in Washington, Texas, and California. She is an internationally recognized expert on the Song of Solomon. CLASServices certified her as an Advanced Personality Trainer in Wired That Way. For more information, see her LinkedIn profile and About page at PatsyRaeDawson.com. Her other websites are EmbarrassTheAlligator.com and SongOfSolomonLoveTriangle.com.