- Has your sexless marriage crushed your spirit and broken your soul?
- Are you passionless in love and sex and unfulfilled in life?
- Instead of making love do you argue and fight?
- Are you divorced and clueless about how to love again as a sexually healthy person?
Then keep reading because God wants you to experience authentic love, healthy relationships, and wholeness in every area of life--including marriage.
- I don't spend time on the temporary band-aid solutions.
- I help people uncover the hidden family-of-origin wounds, survival masks, and relationship patterns that often lie beneath sexless marriages and ongoing marital conflict.
- I can help you transform your life with unique Biblical and personality insights.
Finally, there's hope for passionless marriages and broken spirits when all else fails with my unique ...
Set Your
Genetic Personality
Free to Love
Take Off Your Survival Mask
to Become the Loving Person God Created You to Be
Using Patsy Rae Dawson's unique
Personality Unmasking and Identity Recovery Method™
Your Four Goals
1. Identify Your Survival Mask
2. Release Your Genetic Personality
3. Recover Your Missing Pieces
4. Reopen Your Heart to Love
Who Are You Beneath the Survival Mask?
When people begin to reconnect with their authentic personalities, powerful things happen.
- They become more honest with themselves.
- They become more aware of their needs.
- They learn healthier ways to communicate.
- They begin to recognize old patterns of fear, control, avoidance, and self-protection.
- Most importantly, they begin to recover the loving person God created them to be.
- And they solve problems easier and faster because they are authentic.
With over 50 years of experience working with both men and women, and since 2012, a certified Advanced Personality Trainer, Patsy Rae Dawson's signature program offers hope when other programs keep you stuck in growing your mask instead of revealing your God-given genetic self with all your talents.
Here's What Clients Say
East Coast Client:
Patsy, I was just thanking God for you this week! We took a trip, just my husband and I, for 5 days and it was fantastic! We are doing so very great! I can't quite put into words the peace we're living in. (East Coast Client)
International Client (native language is French)
Working with Patsy was the most valuable coaching experience I've had so far and I have to say that I worked with 4 other coaches plus 3 therapists in the last 3 years. Patsy 's approach is well structured and she was able to help me set goals very early in the process. Also she uses a lot of great tools that really helped me go deep in my work.
I really enjoyed the personality work as it helped me understand better who I was and how being in a sexless marriage and coming from a dysfunctional home of origin negatively impacted me. After only 2 months working with Patsy, I am proud to say that I understand better what I expect from a relationship and also how to identify the red flags in the future.
However my best intake from this work was the deep knowledge I received on how sexuality works. I wish any couple dealing with sexless marriage will have a chance to work with Patsy, she's really wonderful. (International Female Client. We talked via Zoom.)
Your Sexuality and Personality Develop Side-By-Side
The growing up years are critical for both your sexuality and your personality. Dr. Marie N. Robinson, vaginal-orgasm pioneer and author of The Power of Sexual Surrender, says if one is defective, then the other will be also:
"When all goes well in the development of the young girl, both her personality and her sexual passions will flower, she will achieve a beautiful and integrated maturity. But if, as so often happens, thwarting or blighting experiences take place, the development of her personality and her sexuality will be frozen at their sources" (17).
The same principle is true for men. Their sexuality and personality develop side-by-side just as a woman's do. In other words, how you got along with your parents and siblings in your childhood home influences how you get along with your mate.
How Freezing Your Personality and Sexuality Happens
Your personality is 60% genetics and 40% nurturing and relationships. But toxic nurturing and relationships can completely overwhelm and hide your genetic personality and loving nature. Thus, unhealthy childhood experiences can hamper your ability to enjoy and love your mate emotionally and sexually.
Dr. Robinson offers hope:
The bridge to emotional and sexual maturity is built of many facts--hard, scientific facts. Master these facts, gain information on this subject, and you can pass from a land of bitter deprivation to the richness that is your due, your heritage. It is waiting for you on the other side of your fear" (17-18).
God designed both intimacy and marriage to flourish when people learn to love authentically and relate from their true identity rather than from fear, shame, and survival strategies. As people recover their authentic identity, heal old wounds, and learn healthy relationship skills, emotional and sexual intimacy often improve as well.
Both our sexuality and personality are learned, meaning we can unmask our personality survival techniques by discovering the loving person God created us to be. Discover more about how freezing your personality and sexuality wreaks havoc on your love life:
Your sexuality and personality get skewed when you build walls to protect yourself from parental and/or relationship rejection and emotional pain.
Together let’s
- Tear down those walls and replace them with self-understanding so you can truly love yourself and others.
- Move beyond your childhood survival techniques and embrace true adult problem-solving techniques.
- Begin healing your broken spirit so you can start living and loving yourself, your mate, and your children like never before.
Eight weeks of 1-on-1 breakthrough training using Patsy Rae Dawson's unique Personality Unmasking and Identity Recovery Method™: Take off your survival mask to become the loving person God created you to be.
Get Patsy's signature method for an investment of $847 payable in 4 installments of $211.75 every 2 weeks until paid. You can cancel at any time.
Before you start, you’ll go through the Sexless Marriages Survey: With Self-Assessment Checklists. Before the first Zoom session, you'll receive an analysis of your top 3 problem areas with recommendations. You'll set achievable goals for both your 8-week collaboration and your post-coaching self-guided long-term progress.
The survey will help you see that a "sexless marriage" is not the problem. It is a symptom of other problems. And many of those other problems are symptoms of using childhood and relationship survival techniques that don't work in adulthood or marriage. So you'll work on the core issue: identifying and releasing your genetic personality squares--who you are emotionally and activity wise.
You'll kick start your healing by unveiling your genetic personality. You'll learn how to build healthy boundaries by learning how to love yourself, fight fair, and truly solve problems. These foundational principles provide major insights into what’s going on with you.
Claiming your true genetics and filling in the pieces missing in your heart is the first step to repairing family-of-origin and relationship damage. Liberate yourself to become the loving person God created you to be so you can more deeply love your mate and children. Then you’re ready to start loving your mate intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually, to begin sharing sexual intimacy.
Patsy Rae Dawson's Personality Unmasking and Identity Recovery Method™ Who Are You Beneath the Survival Mask? is different from other personality programs:
- Other programs test to see who you are today.
- Other programs don't consider who you've masked to.
- Other programs don't work to discover who you are genetically.
- Other programs don't help you utilize talents you developed as a mask as a gift from God.
- Other programs don't show you how to combine the gifts from your masks with your genetic personality and talents to become a well-rounded and loving individual.
Patsy Rae Dawson's Personality Unmasking and Identity Recovery Method™ Who Are You Beneath the Survival Mask? includes the following bonuses to help you identify and overcome hidden barriers that prevent authentic love, connection, and intimacy:
Personal analysis of your Sexless Marriages Survey: With Self-Assessment Checklists with recommendations that highlight your top 3 problem areas plus copies of your survey answers. (Sells for $147.)- Eight (8) 1-on-1 Zoom sessions with Patsy Rae Dawson.
- Mini personality reveal of your spouse.
- Included in the eight Zoom sessions is one (1) with your spouse on how to blend the benefits and avoid the pitfalls of your two different personalities if your spouse is willing to participate.
- Mini personality reveal on your children (even a baby's personality can be determined) to discuss parenting tips during the Zoom session with your spouse.
- Email support between Zoom sessions to address pullbacks and breakthroughs to help you get the most out of our time together.
- Personal help in applying the Challenges in Marriage: What to Do When Sin Inhibits Love YouTube classes "How to Fight Fair" and "How to Face Anger" techniques to your marriage and children. Many clients have taught their children how to fight fair to eliminate a lot of chaos in their homes.
- Discount for your spouse if he or she invests in the 1-on-1 course with you. Sessions are individual until the last week when they are combined for the family reveal and insights. It's a no-brainer that couples who work together get the best results.
- Recommendations for keeping the momentum going on your own after we finish.
Whether you work with Patsy Rae Dawson or go it alone in dealing with your broken spirit, survival mask, and sexless marriage, please don't delay in tackling your problems. Without intervention, they will only get worse.
to begin discovering who you are beneath the mask to revive your broken spirit and begin communicating and loving authentically.
Contact me with questions: patsy at patsyraedawson dot com.
I've been teaching men and women how to share orgasms for over 50 years. I've been a certified Advanced Personality Trainer since 2012 helping men and women identify who they are beneath their masks so they can love each other authentically.
God designed our sexuality and personality to bless us in many ways.
